Friday, March 21, 2025

THE LOVE RUB

 A FEW DAYS AGO I WATCHED A REEL
THAT SHOWED THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW 
BY SMELL IF YOU GREW UP IN THE 70'S.
I WENT DOWN A NOSTALGIC RABBIT HOLE...
"BOX OF CRAYOLA CRAYONS"
"A DITTO COPY TEST"
THERE WERE MANY OTHERS BUT THE ONE THAT
JUST THE THOUGHT OF IT, GOT ME ALL UP IN MY FEELS WAS
"VICKS VAPOR RUB"
AWWWWEEE YEAH! 
THAT WONDERFUL MINTY SMELL OF LOVE...
MY PARENTS, ESPECIALLY MY MOM
BELIEVED IN THAT VICKS.
IT WAS GOING IN THE VAPORIZER 
AND ON YOUR CHEST....
IT WAS GOING ON THE SOLES OF YOUR FEET
WITH SOCKS ON TOP TO HOLD IN THE BURN...
IT SEEMED TO BE MAGIC TO ME BACK THEN.
THEN I HAD MY OWN CHILDREN
AND THE NAME WENT FROM VICKS VAPOR RUB
TO "LOVE RUB"
BOTH MY KIDDO'S DIDN'T LIKE LOTIONS AND SUCH.
YET, WHEN THEY WOULD BECOME ILL
THEY NEVER SAID NO TO THE BLUE BOTTLE 
I PULLED OUT OF THE MEDICINE CABINET.
THERE IS NOTHING MORE NOSTALGIC
THAN HAVING YOUR MOMMA RUB THIS THICK GEL
ONTO YOUR BODY.
I HONESTLY NOW BELIEVE IT WAS NOT FOR 
THE MEDICINAL CAPABILITIES IT HELD 
BUT FOR THE TLC IT PROVIDED FOR A SICK CHILD.
I KNOW WHEN MY OWN MOMMA OR DADDY 
APPLIED IT TO MY CHEST OR FEET,
THE LOVING FEELING LAST LONGER THAN THE 
ICY FEELING YOUR SKIN FELT.
SCIENTISTS WHO STUDY THIS MEMORY CALL IT THE
PROUST EFFECT:
THE PHENOMENON WHERE SPECIFIC SMELLS
TRIGGER DETAILED AUTOBIOGRAPHICAL MEMORIES.
IF I HAD A BOTTLE OF VICKS IN FRONT OF ME RIGHT NOW
I COULD CLOSE MY EYES AND BE BROUGHT BACK 
TO MY CHILDHOOD FROM JUST ONE SNIFF.
WITH THAT BEING SAID, 
I WOULD ALSO BE BROUGHT BACK TO A TIME
WHEN I WAS CALLED MOMMA BY MY CHILDREN
AND THAT FAMOUS BLUE BOTTLE WOULD 
ONCE AGAIN BE USED
TO RUB SOME LOVE INTO MY CHILD'S BODY.
ALWAYS RUBBED IN EXTRA CARE,
SEALED IN THE BOTTOM OF THE FEET WITH A PAIR OF SOCKS.
MAYBE THIS WAS DONE TO KEEP THE VAPORUB WORKING LONGER
BUT I LIKE TO BELIEVE IT WAS TO SEAL THE LOVE
INTO THE HEART, FOR THE LOVE TO BE BROUGHT BACK
BY JUST A SIMPLE SMELL FROM A BLUE BOTTLE 
CALLED VICKS VAPOR RUB.



Tuesday, March 11, 2025

MARY POPPINS, JR.

 For the past 7 months Iberville Theater,
which is also a part of WE ARE THE DIFFERENCE,
has worked on putting on a child's theater play,
MARY POPPINS, JR.
Rhonda, our director and Alicia, music director 
and myself have worked tirelessly with these children.
Some came to us, never having been in any theater performance before.
Others came with some experience.
It was a big cast and getting all players to a 
twice a week practice all together was almost impossible.
Rhonda worked tirelessly on schedules to try and
incorporate the schedules of very busy children and parents.
I honestly don't know how she does it all.
It is finally time for the performance.
Practice on stage began Wednesday night with 
dress rehearsal....
We were all a bit worried.
As I said, some of these children have never performed on stage.
It was also the adults first time to work out the kinks
for stage presence. 
Thursday, there was a 4 hour practice, now microphones were added.
these children, all rallied around the concept of learning
what they had to do.
Friday night..... well, they did it!
These children pulled off a performance that blew us out of the park.
As I stood in the audience to watch in case they became stuck,
I had a moment where I felt like I could cry...
To watch one child who stuttered get on that stage
and belt out his part with so much confidence and not one missed word,
the little ones, performing their little hearts out...
I could go on and on about how good theater is for children.
Although I am a helper, my work in this play was nothing
compared to what Rhonda and Alicia have done with these children.
Each child has become so important to us, 
 we have bonded with each one of them.
They will all be missed by me for sure.
Of course, I would not be called Mumsie
if I didn't brag about my own grand girl.
When she was cast as Mary Poppins she understood 
what a big deal this was going to be.
To watch her on stage, without one ounce of nervousness,
having found "her thing" 
well it was just enough to make us all so very proud of her.
Theater is so good for children and its sad
that there are not many theater groups in schools anymore.
for our Jemma Jew, she transforms on stage.
A big shout out to all of you who came to watch
Mary Poppins, the support is so necessary!

THE LOVE RUB

 A FEW DAYS AGO I WATCHED A REEL THAT SHOWED THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW  BY SMELL IF YOU GREW UP IN THE 70'S. I WENT DOWN A NOSTALGIC RABBIT...